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Perspective of Women & Wives upon the Men of their Community

Your voice and perspective is powerful and needed!  We are asking for your VERY HONEST perspective so that we can better serve, empower, and challenge the Men of our community to rise to the Next level of godliness, leadership,  and devotion.

This survey will be anonymous to the men, so PLEASE be extremely Honest!  We will not share with the men how you specifically answered, only the collected findings and general senses and perspectives.  (At the end of the survey you are asked for your name and email.  It's just part of the software being used - you are welcome to put "anonymous" as your name.  At this point, Josiah is the only one receiving the results.  Please keep in mind, the spirit of this is not to "expose" or dishonor the men.)

As the family of God and as individual households, we are committed to all grow together into the fullness of Gods design and plan!

Please answer the following 18 questions.

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Question 1 of 19

  1. Rate on a scale of 1-10 (1 being distracted and disengaged and 10 being- he is an inspiration to me, wholehearted, and disciplined) How would you describe your husbands devotional life (prayer, scripture reading, engagement in worship and thankfulness toward God, fasting etc)

A

1 - I’m deeply troubled by the lack of devotion and evident love for God and the things of the Spirit. Real devotion to God seems virtually absent in his/their private life and public life.

B

2

C

3

D

4

E

5 - He/They engage but not consistently and primarily only in corporate settings or when they have to lead

F

6

G

7

H

8

I

9

J

10 - Fiery and consistent devotion in both private and public matters that inspires me and spurs me onto greater depths and devotion in Christ.

K

Not Applicable

Question 2 of 19

  1. Rate on a scale of 1-10 (1 being distracted and disengaged and 10 being- he is an inspiration to me, wholehearted, and disciplined) How would you describe from your persepctive your fathers devotional life (prayer, scripture reading, engagement in worship and thankfulness toward God, fasting etc)

If your father is no longer alive and knew the Lord - what did you observe around His devotional life?

If he didn't know the Lord.  Please indicate.

Question 3 of 19

Where do you find your husband or father, and the men of this community initiating LEAST ?

 

(Reminder: if you’re married, comment on your husband first, then the men of the community.  If you are NOT married, comment on your father first, then the men of this community……PLEASE BE VERY HONEST!

Question 4 of 19

Where do you find your husband or father, and the men of this community initiating MOST?

 

(Reminder: if you’re married, comment on your husband first, then the men of the community.  If you are NOT married, comment on your father first, then the men of this community……PLEASE BE VERY HONEST!

Question 5 of 19

  1. I feel my husband or father is truly leading our home?

A

Strongly Disagree

B

Disagree

C

Sometimes

D

Agree

E

Strongly Agree

Question 6 of 19

  1.  I feel the men are leading the charge in our community?

A

Yes

B

No

C

There is a few, but I would not say that Men of the community are leading the Charge in the Faith, in engagement, in direction..etc

Question 7 of 19

My husband  listens intently to me & I feel  heard and loved. 

A

Strongly Disagree

B

Disagree

C

Sometimes

D

Agree

E

Strongly Agree

Question 8 of 19

  1.  My husband or father speaks to me with sensitivity and gentleness.

A

Agree

B

Disagree

Question 9 of 19

  1.  My husband or father is encouraging and affirming of me on a regular basis?

A

Agree

B

Disagree

Question 10 of 19

  1.  My husband elicits and asks for my feedback and insights.  I feel included and valued in decision making.

A

Agree

B

Disagree

Question 11 of 19

  1.  We have communicated clearly about expectations and our approach to parenting and feel we are on the same page.

 

If not married and without kids - do you feel your parents operate this way?

A

Agree

B

Disagree

Question 12 of 19

  1.  I feel my husband leaves the discipline of the children to me?        (if not married or don't have children, is this how you primarily saw it with your parents?)

A

Agree

B

Disagree

Question 13 of 19

I feel my husband overly criticizes and is too harsh with disciplining the kids.     ( Not married:  I feel my dad was this way)

A

Agree

B

Disagree

C

Agree - Father

D

Disagree - Father

Question 14 of 19

  1.  My husband leads the charge in training/disciplining the kids or grand kids in the faith and in character.

(Not married: My dad lead the way here ..)

A

Agree

B

Disagree

Question 15 of 19

  1. I believe or suspect that my husband or the men in our community regularly engage in pornography & masterbation.

A

Agree

B

Disagree

C

Not Applicable

Question 16 of 19

  1. I feel Sexual Pressure and uncomfortability from what I feel my husband wants or expects or does? 

A

Never

B

Sometimes

C

Almost every time

D

Not applicable

Question 17 of 19

  1. If you had to describe your husbands or fathers greatest desire and motivations in life, they would be….

Question 18 of 19

  1. I’m truly happy with the status of my relationship with my husband or father?

A

Agree

B

Disagree

C

Agree - and we talk openly about how we can continue to improve together.

D

Disagree - but we have talked openly about this and are both working on making changes to improve our relationship.

E

Disagree - But we have NOT talked about it. I don’t really want to either because I don’t want to deal with the conflict or how it will be received. I don’t feel secure and safe to share openly.

Question 19 of 19

What my husband does best that I value and admire is.....

(If not Married, insert about your dad)

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